As times passes by many couples after entering into a deeper stage of their relations fall into a specific period of doubt with regard to the loyalty of their friend. Of course this is not always without any grounds but definitely this period enters in the moment when the woman feels a slightly withdrawal or coldness from the part of the boy with whom she is in the moment.
In this period girls unconsciously start looking for reasons in themselves, related with the withdrawal of their loving one and the standstill in their relationship. Most often they start asking strange questions during the conversation, pretending these questions are involuntarily asked, and the questions usually are hardly related to the topic and the girls pretend they are completely disinterested by the answers. Most usually these questions are misleading, so to say. Usually their purpose is to provoke the man to give a wrong answer so that his loving one could catch him unprepared and could find a good reason to make him see where he belongs. These quarrels most often end with a slightly weeping and sobbing, which in most cases could result in crying, too. Most commonly these situations are fought with best by means of a massive attack from the part of the man, where he doesn’t stop making compliments and love explanations to his girlfriend with the purpose of making her relaxed and fight the accumulated stress. Of course the best thing is to keep her entirely from such moments and as much as possible to prevent them. For the purpose it is good to have several known answers in mind for the most widely used testing questions which we could use every time we have been asked such questions.
“Do you love me?”: Here the man should turn to the girl and look with a wet look in the eyes, caress her softly on the cheek and say: “YES” or “YES honey” accompanied with “…you are the love of my life…” or something like that.
A wrong answer is the meaningless: “Is there any meaning”, “I suppose that…”, “Well…” as well as the slightest thinking and a longer pause. This answer would cause a real catastrophe in your relations.
“Am I fat?”: With this question being answered one should react rapidly and not allowing himself the slightest shade of doubt. The answer should sound confident and sure : “NO, of course!”, accompanied with “…you look great…” or something like that.
As wrong answers in such a situation one could specify: “Compared to whom?”, “You could bear several kilos more”, “I have seen even fatter than you” etc. With such an answer you could worry her very seriously. Regardless of her feeling for humor you could be sure that she wouldn’t understand the joke and she would even make clear indication at the moment that she is deeply injured and insulted.
“She, is she more beautiful than me?” This question is usually asked if they caught you looking after a gifted girl or they feel that you sympathize a closer girlfriend or relative. In such a moment you should remain calm and behave cold-blooded. To turn to her and to look her straight in the eyes and say: “NO, you are much more beautiful!”, after that you should give her a passionate kiss and if possible in front of the subject of jealousy.
Under no circumstances you should give an answer like this: “I can’t make a decision”, “Yes, but you are more ….”, “Would you repeat”. Such an answer could make stronger the initial impressions of your partner and she definitely would not be satisfied with such an answer.
“What are you thinking about right now?”: This question is equal to “Pay attention to me…look at me, I am here right now and I am very bored”. You should very quickly think about something funny and original, after which you should try to make a surprise in the next two days. This is a good sign that she is bored and she urgently needs your attention and variety. And an excellent example for an answer is: “I think what a wonderful girl you are and what a lucky man I am having met you.”. All other things you have really thought about would be categorically wrong answer.
Think good about the above mentioned examples and you would see that these are signs which could show you that there is a problem in your relationship. It is good after making the situation all right that you should think about what has made your loved one behaving like this. And if you still have serious intentions towards her you should try making things right in the quickest way possible.
Wrong answers
As times passes by many couples after entering into a deeper stage of their relations fall into a specific period of doubt with regard to the loyalty of their friend. Of course this is not always without any grounds but definitely this period enters in the moment when the woman feels a slightly withdrawal or coldness from the part of the boy with whom she is in the moment.
In this period girls unconsciously start looking for reasons in themselves, related with the withdrawal of their loving one and the standstill in their relationship. Most often they start asking strange questions during the conversation, pretending these questions are involuntarily asked, and the questions usually are hardly related to the topic and the girls pretend they are completely disinterested by the answers. Most usually these questions are misleading, so to say. Usually their purpose is to provoke the man to give a wrong answer so that his loving one could catch him unprepared and could find a good reason to make him see where he belongs. These quarrels most often end with a slightly weeping and sobbing, which in most cases could result in crying, too. Most commonly these situations are fought with best by means of a massive attack from the part of the man, where he doesn’t stop making compliments and love explanations to his girlfriend with the purpose of making her relaxed and fight the accumulated stress. Of course the best thing is to keep her entirely from such moments and as much as possible to prevent them. For the purpose it is good to have several known answers in mind for the most widely used testing questions which we could use every time we have been asked such questions.
“Do you love me?”: Here the man should turn to the girl and look with a wet look in the eyes, caress her softly on the cheek and say: “YES” or “YES honey” accompanied with “…you are the love of my life…” or something like that.
A wrong answer is the meaningless: “Is there any meaning”, “I suppose that…”, “Well…” as well as the slightest thinking and a longer pause. This answer would cause a real catastrophe in your relations.
“Am I fat?”: With this question being answered one should react rapidly and not allowing himself the slightest shade of doubt. The answer should sound confident and sure : “NO, of course!”, accompanied with “…you look great…” or something like that.
As wrong answers in such a situation one could specify: “Compared to whom?”, “You could bear several kilos more”, “I have seen even fatter than you” etc. With such an answer you could worry her very seriously. Regardless of her feeling for humor you could be sure that she wouldn’t understand the joke and she would even make clear indication at the moment that she is deeply injured and insulted.
“She, is she more beautiful than me?” This question is usually asked if they caught you looking after a gifted girl or they feel that you sympathize a closer girlfriend or relative. In such a moment you should remain calm and behave cold-blooded. To turn to her and to look her straight in the eyes and say: “NO, you are much more beautiful!”, after that you should give her a passionate kiss and if possible in front of the subject of jealousy.
Under no circumstances you should give an answer like this: “I can’t make a decision”, “Yes, but you are more ….”, “Would you repeat”. Such an answer could make stronger the initial impressions of your partner and she definitely would not be satisfied with such an answer.
“What are you thinking about right now?”: This question is equal to “Pay attention to me…look at me, I am here right now and I am very bored”. You should very quickly think about something funny and original, after which you should try to make a surprise in the next two days. This is a good sign that she is bored and she urgently needs your attention and variety. And an excellent example for an answer is: “I think what a wonderful girl you are and what a lucky man I am having met you.”. All other things you have really thought about would be categorically wrong answer.
Think good about the above mentioned examples and you would see that these are signs which could show you that there is a problem in your relationship. It is good after making the situation all right that you should think about what has made your loved one behaving like this. And if you still have serious intentions towards her you should try making things right in the quickest way possible.