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They say that the first impression is the most solid and that we build on it our opinion for the person in front of us. How to impress the man, so that he permanently should look for a contact with you.

Usually the people, who are similar to each other, attract each other. And there hides the key to success. You should try to gather more information about him during your first conversation, especially about the things he is addicted to. These are in particular: His favourite hobby, the music he likes, his favourite sport, the personalities, who he adores and many others. You could say: yes, but how could I know all that, we simply don’t know each other. Yes, it is true. But under the conditions of online communication this is a tough, but not impossible job. You should not overdo it with the questions and you should not go too much deep into the subjects. Because that could make the man draw back. Nobody loves feeling like he/she is being interrogated or being outtalked. You should try flying a kite with one or two more general questions. These questions could help you to draw quicker the general interests and preferred subjects, which could be talked about. Some examples for such questions are: “What do you do in your spare time?”, “Where do you like to go out?” or more indirectly: “How did you spend the weekend?”.

These questions shall help you check whether there is something in common between you and him, which you both like and which could be a reason for sharing some nice impressions. They could also provide you with a direction for the next conversation, for which you could get prepared in advance and you could present yourself in a proper way. Usually if you find a topic, which is interesting for him, he would take the word by himself and if you encourage him, he shall tell you everything most interesting and actual on it.

There is nothing better for a man than to meet an intelligent girl, with whom he could freely discuss: the cup’s final, his favourite artist’s concert or an upcoming premiere of his favourite author. If you are not prepared on the topics and interests, which he has, don’t bother. Lead the discussion away to another direction and after you finish it, collect more information from newspapers, magazines, Internet and TV. Be aware that men very rarely accept women, who are supporters of the rival team. As well as women, who prefer a quite different music style. Follow these instructions and you will see how easy would be to attract men in the virtual space. What you need to do is only to keep the flame burning.