Signs that he cheating on you-Part Two

Considering the first part of the article, there we introduced some of the mild and not too intrusive signs that he might cheating on you. In this section we are going to provide several more serious signals to pay attention.

He comes back late from places where it was without you: He comes back home late at night. He excuses himself with impulsively going out with old friends or more work at the office. Going out is more frequent and he finds difficulties to explain where and with whom he was. He is obviously trying to not talk about going out and diverts the topic in another direction. He might become irritable when a conversation occurred in this direction.

He avoids your direct you look: He feels uneasy and insecure when you look him straight in the eyes. He is doing everything possible to avoid your gaze. Especially in the conversations concerning the relationship with you, this might be due to a strong sense of guilt or fear of exposing him in an explicit lie. Certainly, there is something wrong with him and you have to take action.

He doesn’t stay still: He proceeds nervously from foot to foot and can not stop. While sitting he is jittery shaking his leg. For the liars, it is difficult to control their legs. Ask him about how his day has passed, and then gently lead the conversation about what worries and bothers him. After a few days, ask him one or two questions related to his story to verify that he would say the same or lie.

He updates his wardrobe: He starts wearing new and modern underwear, also emphasizes on more expensive and exquisite brands. There is abrupt change in his style of dressing. He buys and wears clothes which he hasn’t been impressed before. He makes new and combinations with his clothes.

He is unusually fastidious and vain: He has a renewed interest in his appearance. Suddenly, he starts caring a lot of the small details in his clothing. He more often starts to visit a hairdresser and beautician. Before goes out, he began to stay longer than usual in front of the mirror. In general, he is extremely fastidious and demanding to the overall appearance. Men are not like women and they do not happen to fall in periodic moods towards their appearance and clothes style, unless they are imposed by certain circumstances.
The article is continued in Part Three.

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