What do men like?-Part one
Dear women and girls, have you ever wondered why you couldn’t reach the essence of some handsome boy or attractive man? Have you ever been standing in front of an invisible wall when trying to reach the heart of your beloved? And have you asked yourself why it happened this way? And is your approach the right one? Do you choose the right time and place for it? And if things you do for your love mate really like him in fact? In this article we have attempted to describe the most common things which men like. Things that you could abide to have special intimacy with the man beside you.
Make little surprises to him on the occasion and no occasion: Show your half, that you think of him even when you are not together. Get him something he has mentioned that he would like to have. Don’t buy modern shirts, which you want him to wear. Make him such a present, as he would like to receive, regardless how absurd you think it is. Ultimately, he would use it, not you.
Give him unexpected and sincere caress: Hugs, kisses and touches of all kinds. Especially in moments when you see, your beloved is tense, show him compassion, touch him lightly on the arm, it would inspire courage in him. Touch his back with your hand while going behind his chair, a thrill of excitement shall go through his whole body for sure, and he would feel truly desired and loved. You shouldn’t think that a tight, serious and raw male won’t need a little tenderness. These types of men even need more and usually only the women beside them could give loving. Since his position in society might be such that it does not allow this behaviour outside privacy.
Take care of his self-esteem: Men need to feel “The man in the house”. Most of them even manage to be, which is calming, regarding there is no need for women to do everything by themselves. Do not underrate things he has done / repaired / or bought for you or for home. Encourage him, he will feel truly valued. Be generous to praise and compliments for the well done job. He really needs to hear such encouraging words. This applies especially to a more specific group of men to whom it is even a matter of honour, if you do it.
Do not deprive him of his personal time: You both come back from work, tell him how your day has passed, while he is surfing the Internet or going thorough television channels and he responds with gibber. He is not angry; he needs his moments of solitude and time for hobbies. Leave him those moments of calmness, he needs as you need a hot bath, or going out for coffee and chatting with friends, telephone conversation with your mother or your rightful time for the hairdresser and beautician once a week. And do not be angry if he does not understand the nature of women’s problems that’s the same as you do not understand why when the slight rattling noise of the car turns into a drama when riding in the car.
The article is continued in Part Two.
