First impressions are most important
The first contact with a person is extremely important for your subsequent relations. Regardless of whether you meet yourselves by accident in the park, communicate by means of a chat programme or in a forum.
Have in mind, that the first few statements you exchange with each other leave the most bright and lasting impressions about each other. It is scientifically established that after your first contact both parties could determine in 90 % of the cases about the opposite party whether the person, they have communicated with, could become a closer friend, a girl or boy friend, just a relative or he/she could be forgotten forever. Just because of this you should be very carefull at the first meeting with someone, both if this is a virtual or real one.
Don’t be shy and bashful, because this would be a hindrance for you to present yourself in the desired light. This would stand in your way to disclose your identity.
You should try being maximum slack and relaxed when you lead a dialogue with the boy or the girl on the opposite side. Try being natural and don’t contain your reactions and emotions, because this could make you unique in yourself. And this very “uniqueness” is what everyone looks for in a new contact with an unknown person. This is the one which generates the over interest in the person on the opposite side. And namely the possibility for him/her to get to know a new, different and interesting person.
If it makes you laugh, just laugh, if you would like to scream of joy, do it but within some reasonable limits. Very few are the people who like the extremities and besides if someone decides that you are overacting, he/she could become disinterested in you.
The expression of emotions, the behavior which we demonstrate and our intellect, collected in one build our individuality. Therefore you don’t need to be afraid of using gestures, grimaces and facial expressions while you are communicating. Very often this could add an extra notion to the story you have told. Furthermore this could help more quickly and easily to understand and precept the things you are talking about.
Try using a wider range of words and expressions in order to present the things you are talking about in a better light. This is especially needed when you have no visual contact with your partner, for example when you are using a chat program. This is done in order to underline the emotions which you are experiencing during the communication. Use the option to send images and animations which could show the person on the opposite side that you are just laughing or winking .
These well-known and unimportant at first glance advices could help you presenting yourself in a better way to your future friends and beloved ones, so that you would not be embarassed to use them. They could be only useful to you.
