Impressive meeting
Maybe you have thought of how getting to know some people leaves you with some very good and pleasant impressions without you being able to get to know better this particular person who has just been introduced to you.
Have you ever asked yourself how do some people achieve being so charming. Is this the perfect charm with which you could fascinate everybody you want still from the very first contact with him/her. Could this be learned by everyone and could this be applied for every single meeting.
Of course the personal charm and magnetism are all qualities, which are not typical for everyone. And definitely there is a lot of time and excercieses needed in order to learn them and to be able to practice them. But no matter how much you practice, it is not sure that you will succeed in becoming the most magnetic and charming personality. There are people who are born talents and who achieve perfect results with no significant strains. Still there are some things which everyone could do, since they are very easy to be applied and once applied they remain very efficient.
One of the first and most important things, which are of significant importance for a successfull meeting, is the smile. Yes, you could say to yourself that you are continuously smiling. It could be so, but many people think they are smiling and friendly, when it comes, however, to a moment of meeting a new person, they always get tightened, serious and even frowning.
Besides there are many boys and girls who think that there is no sense smiling when meeting someone in the Internet by means of a chat program, since the person on the other side cannot see them. Yes, it is true, but you could send to him/her different animated smiles attached to your messages. Believe it or not, but this adds mood and creates an impression for a smiling and positive person. Video conversations should not be done without any smiles, too. Even though they often make the image look more sheer and the picture quality is not always a good one, there is nothing more impressive than a smile seen. It creates a positive feeling for the participants in the dialogue.
It is good to start the conversation with a “Hi, I am Lora” and then to make a short introduction in just a statement, such as: “I am a second year law student in the University of Dusseldorf”. This short introduction statement should provide your partner with enough information to go further with the conversation in at least five topics without thinking about it, for example: He/she could continue the conversation in the direction Dusseldorf, because he/she has visited this city. He/she could start talking about the law, since his/her acquaintance or relative has studied or studies the same. He/she could ask you questions about the student life you have etc. The important thing is to be able to lead and maintain the conversation in a good manner. And also to strive towards finding more points of common interests. This should make you feel more close to each other and should allow to talk more freely.
Do your best to avoid fully taking the initiative in the conversation while you are talking to the girl on the other side or to your symphatic friend. You should not enrapture yourself with stories about yourself and your interests. Be brief and smiling. Give key words on topics which are interesting for you and do your best to talk as much as the person on the other side. Get free of all negative emotions and leave the conversation going smoothly and friendly.
In the course of time you shall convince yourself, that this way of communication shall bring many new friends to you. You should be able to wake much greater interest in your new partners and they should be happy to see you every time you have a contact with them.
