FLIRTING RULES

The flirt is one of the most beautiful acts of communication between both sexes, which results in an explosion of mixed feelings and unrestrained emotions. Just as every single thing in this beautiful life flirt has its unwritten rules, too. It is good when we obey them, if we want to give maximum pleasure and minimum disappointment and negative emotions to the participants in it.

Relatives and friends: These are the people with whom you are spending a big part of your time. With them you usually go through some of your happiest moments. They are close to you in a moment of weakness and disappointment and they share the joy of your big and small victories. Therefore you should be always correct and loyal with them in your relations. Never let yourself flirting with the chicks of your friends and the people with whom you are most often together.

Give them more: Try not to flirt with somebody else’s women just to demonstrate to yourself how good you are. Or to take some poser down. Even with the transient relations and the quick flirts you must always try to give something more to your partners. Something they have never had before in their previous relations. Something unique which shall make them feel more special and they shall remember their relation with you.

The nice men: The nice, well brought-up and noble men are even harder to be found today. Therefore try being a gentleman and when you see, that the man whose chick you are flirting with is also a gentleman, don’t take his woman away but direct your drive towards another subject. This is something as an unwritten rule between the well brought-up and mature men. Just as it is with the knights: Even the biggest rivals respect the personality of the others.

Don’t allow any aggression: This is enemy number one for the skilled flirting man. Usually it brings nothing good and spoils the joy of the moment. If you are not able to keep your nerves you better retrain, relax and start again with someone other. Don’t allow being aggressive, even when the boyfriend of the girl you are flirting with doesn’t show any signs of aggression. In this case your most powerful and faultless weapon is slightly over the funny and mocking tone. You can always mock at your rival and discredit him by using his aggression against him. This would make him being heavily ashamed and trying to get out of the place as fast as possible.

Always be positive: Always try being in raised mood, smile and keep a positive tone. This would give you additional charm, which is never in excess in such moments. No matter what should happen, don’t let yourself lose the positive tone. Because if you get aggressive and despondent, you will lose the game. Even in case of a loss, when things are not going well, try getting out of the еxisting situation with a smile and in good mood.

Don’t take excessive risks: You must assess the situation good if you don’t want to get into a compromising and unpleasant situation. Always risk with measure and don’t overdo with the bold proposals. Act firmly only when your friends are close to you. You know that there are many cases when flirting nice chaps have been beaten because of some liberally behaving girl.

These are some of the unwritten rules from “the code of the flirting man”. Try observing these rules and you should see, that you will be able to build an image of respecting and honest man. A man who knows how to get the things he needs. Without allowing himself being arrogant and disgraceful.

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3 Responses to FLIRTING RULES

  1. Desmond says:

    Hey, good post there! Really teaches me a lot on flirting, wonderful stuff (: I especially like the point on being the nice men, smart tactic -wink.

    Yours sincerely,
    Desmond

  2. Curt Sudak says:

    It is useful to try everything in practice anyway and I like that here it’s always possible to find something new.

  3. Max Blanche says:

    Thank you guys, I love this place, you have put a lot of work into it as I see, awesome… good work mods.

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