What attracts men?
I suppose you have often asked yourself the questions: What should I do in order to intrigue him? How should I make him pay more attention to me? …….
Indeed the real question is: WHAT ATTRACTS MEN?
You should have in mind that we all live in a world, which has turned into a big competition. A competition of the flirt and the love play. Believe it or not, but you should know that the bigger part of the people are extremely pro-active in this adventurous competition. And you should agree with the fact that Internet and the real time communication add to it a special charm and romance. Regardless of their age and their occupation all men and women flirt with each other in a direct or indirect way. And this makes their life more interesting, more diverse, more colourful and emotional.
Men are extremely active love competitors, especially in the web space. They get advantage of all possibilities which the web offers to them. They make great efforts in winning the kindness of the woman. What they get often is just a virtual smile, sometimes they are not even remarked. Men very rarely get into the role of chased and courted. But when this happens they very carefully study the woman with all her qualities, both good and bad. Have in mind that men are usually very exigent, when they feel flying fluides from a girl who obviously has decided to capture them. They often ask their friends for approval. For them the self-confidence is extremely important and you should be extremely careful not to harm it.
If you want to create a stable friendship or a serious relationship, you should pay attention to your online relations with him just as follows :
• You should be honest with him! You should not play any roles and pose as someone you are not. Even if you feel tempted by the possibility to hide your real nature behind your nickname and chat messages you send. Even the most callous men feel the insincerity almost immediately. And in your future relations this could be almost anytime a fatal error.
• Men don’t like treating them like fools! Don’t lie to them and don’t mislead them. Always be natural and basic. Men love the uniqueness and therefore you should avoid cliches. This in combination with the mistery, which the web provides, is one of your most powerful love weapons.
• I don’t know if you would believe or not, but most of the men look for the real love, however they don’t want to show it. Since in the online relations there is no body language, with which you could skilfully show your preferences to him and the attraction you feel. You should put maximum strengths to show this with words so that you would impress him in the best possible way. And don’t forget that very few men would start talking first over attraction.
• Conversations over sex and sexual relations are something the man wants much more than the woman. But you should definitely forget about these topics during your first conversation. You must know that men looking for serious relationships would decide that you are frivolous and unserious, they could even draw a much more false conclusion.
Having in mind these guidelines and using your imagination in the virtual web space you could be able to build a unique image, which could make a romantic and close friend of you with its identity and measured moderation. This is the main thing which attracts men. They are looking for a women with whom they could talk and share without any inhibitions. Without being afraid of the fact that she could become tired and could draw back. This gives them the chance to open themselves in front of you in a way you wouldn’t see them. And if you get to know their nature, you would be able to make them yours forever.