HOW TO START TALKING TO HER – PART ONE
This is the first and most important step, which should leave durable impressions on the girl with whom you want to become friends. Therefore you should present yourself at your best and in such a way, so that you could be able to intrigue her and to leave her with positive impressions. In order to present yourself at the proper level you should have in mind some basic rules. If you stick to them you should have much bigger chance for having a success.
Select the moment: It is very important to select the right moment and the right place. Remember that this is of exclusive importance for the final success. Don’t try talking to beautiful girls at the street. Don’t try talking to them when they are among other girlfriends, too. The best moment to start talking to the girl you like is when she is alone and is bored. Then she would be ready to listen to everyone and would be happy to accept a funny and nice conversation to cheer herself up. Besides there would be no girlfriends around in front of whom she should have to behave and this would make her be more natural. It would be good if you succeed in using the services of a close friend of her, who would be able to introduce you in front of her. This would make her more open minded and she would not pretend being too important, when she gets to know that she has mutual friends with you.
Watch the situation: Select the appropriate situation for having your conversation. If it is not appropriate, go to another place, which should be better and more comfortable. Watch for her reactions and the way she reacts at the place you are. If she feels confused and is not easy, this means she shall not pay attention to the things you are talking to her. Take a look and follow continuously the surrounding situation and the events around you. Anything unusual could serve as a conversation subject and could cheer up and refresh the situation.
The body language: You should look as if you know what you want and how to achieve it. For this purpose you must use clear and distinctive verbal messages in the conversation and also it is very good if you support them with adequate gestures and facial expressions. All this mixed into one could result in an impressive presence. The behavior you are going to demonstrate in front of her is of extreme importance. You should be self-confident and very relaxed. Under no circumstances you should look as if you are self-confident and arrogant, since this is not liked by anyone. Don’t try being too formal and pretending as if you are of great importance. Since this should make the conversation only harder. Try behaving as if you are talking to some good friend, while you are having a conversation with her.
First words: Regardless of what we are talking about and discussing here, you must remember the following! YOU MUST START TALKING TO HER! It is not necessary to be original, some clichés could do the job, too. The important thing is to do it! You could lose nothing! You could only win. Even if she tells you to go away, you just wanted to get introduced to her and this is nothing bad. But if she answers you with a smile in return, this means that you have succeed in impressing her. And from here on the worries should be forgotten and you should feel more confident and relaxed, which should help you leading the conversation between you both in a far easier way.
To be continued in Part two
